Community guidelines
Adults. Consent. Respect. Always.
This is an 18+ dating and social-connections community—not a marketplace for sexual services.
Who may participate
Every member and every person shown in a profile must be at least 18 years old. Members may be required to complete identity and age verification before posting.
Dating only—no paid services
Do not offer, request, advertise, negotiate, or imply prostitution, escorting, compensated dating, sexual services, or any exchange of money, gifts, lodging, transportation, substances, or other value for sexual activity.
No member-to-member payments
Kansas City's Hidden Secrets charges only for platform verification and posting plans. The platform does not process payments between members. Never send money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, banking details, deposits, or “verification payments” to another member.
Consent and authentic profiles
Use only your own identity and images, or content you are legally authorized to use. Obtain clear consent from every adult depicted. Impersonation, coercion, harassment, trafficking, exploitation, and nonconsensual content are prohibited.
Prohibited listing language
Posts may not contain rates, menus, hourly language, coded service terms, “donations,” payment handles, or instructions for purchasing access or sexual activity. Suspicious listings may be rejected or removed.
Reporting and enforcement
We may review, reject, suspend, or remove content or accounts that violate these rules. Report suspicious profiles, underage users, coercion, threats, scams, or illegal activity immediately.
Report a safety concern